" Long Distance is nothing, the important is......

 

     Hi, today Nurul will share story about my experience about LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.  I had been the most challenging that we both going through. Long distance is just distance but the most is important is TRUST. I and Baha sacrifice for our relationship for 1 years and half. He went to Perth, Australia. He went there because he work at Balga, Perth, Australia. And I still 18 years old that time still young to through this alone. I know this is the most sad for me because we need to separate about a thousand miles from me. But I know Allah s.w.t did to us must have a reason. Any happen has a reason right?. So i just follow the flow. One night, firstly he didnt want to tell me about he need to go Australia because he know we always spend time together everyday and suddenly we didnt get chance to spent time anymore. And then he called me, he told everything, when i firstly heard I was kinda sad and automatically I think negative about him. But i not show my feeling to him, i keep support him, because who I am didn't give him chance to grab a new experience at oversea. So after he settled about his visa and i help him to settle his passport and ticket, and the day came that we need to separate. I send him at KLIA and that time was very reluctant to let him go. I know I will miss him, i cant cry that time. I dont know why. Her mother came to and hug said everything is gonna fine,nurul.

Its been half month which mean the summer time was start that time, but in Malaysia still same the weather haha. Okay, so far so good I and Baha. But sometimes i feel so lonely and i replace the lonely time with spend time with my bestfriend and my family. I know is so hard to through this. Sometimes too many problem i need to through ,sometimes the phone problem, skype problem, sometimes we did not contact for a whole day. It was killing me deeply. I cry alone. I dont want to show at him because i know he at outside there he did for his family and i need to trust him what he did at outside there. Other than that, we are keep what we always do, we contact everyday using skype or he will call me, we open a new topic or current issue, gossip too. What he do always told me, when we both going somewhere we tell each other, we always spend our time in digital communication. I always be positive to him,it is MUST! If i really really cant handle this i ask advise from my bestfriend and read some article. 

After one year we had been through this, I got a good news he will came back home in 5 months left, I was so surprise and excited!. I thankful to Allah because we still can handle and keep together until he came back Malaysia. Actually, Long distance is just a miles but the importance is trust and keep be positive. Even hard to leave him or what you need to through this for your relationship. Sometimes in relationship has their hardship right? Not in relationship always have fun, romantic everytime. We need to show our sacrifice. I got a lot experience of this chanllenging. I hope this will be last forever. That's all.